House rules & safety
Short version: this is a 21+ adult community for conversation. Be a person. Anything involving minors, threats, or criminal activity gets you removed and reported.
Who can be here
- 21 and over only. Age verification is required before you can enter any district.
- One account per person. No shared or resold accounts.
- No impersonating other members, moderators, or public figures.
What gets you removed immediately
- Any sexual content involving minors. Accounts are suspended the moment this is reported, evidence is preserved, and reports are escalated to NCMEC and law enforcement as required by law.
- Credible threats of violence, or targeting someone for harassment.
- Selling illegal goods or services, or soliciting anything criminal.
- Sharing anyone's private information without their consent.
How reporting works
- Every message, member and district has a Report button.
- Pick a category, add detail, and send. The surrounding conversation is frozen as evidence so it survives our 30-day purge.
- Reports about minors or threats trigger an automatic hold on the reported account before a human reviews it. Everything else goes into the moderator queue.
- Abusing the report button to harass someone is itself a violation.
What moderators can do
- Warn, mute for a set time, kick you from a district, or ban you site-wide.
- Delete individual messages and remove profile photos.
- Close a district, including private ones.
- Enter any private room without the password, for safety. Moderators appear in the member list — they do not lurk invisibly.
- Every moderator action is written to a permanent audit log with a reason.
Your own tools
- Block a member: they can no longer DM you and their messages are hidden from you.
- Leave any district at any time. Private districts can be reported like anywhere else.
Photos
- No images in chat, anywhere — including private districts.
- One profile photo plus up to 5 gallery photos. Keep them legal and keep them yours.
Data & retention
- Chat messages and DMs are automatically deleted after 30 days.
- Anything tied to an open report or a legal hold is exempt from deletion and is retained for as long as required.
- Age verification is handled by a third-party identity provider. We store a pass/fail result — we do not keep your ID image.
Contact
- Law enforcement and legal requests: use the address published in our Terms. A designated contact responds to preservation and disclosure requests.
- Safety concerns that can't wait for the queue: report with the "Threats" category.
These rules are the operating policy of the community. They are not a substitute for a lawyer-reviewed Terms of Service and Privacy Policy, which must be in place before the site accepts payments.